Showing posts with label fund raiser. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fund raiser. Show all posts

Monday, May 5, 2014

I Love the Night Life...

It's Monday, and I'm alive. We made it through the weekend of drag.

I went into the weekend not sure what to expect.  Because,  let's be honest.  I'm painfully shy. To the point of standing around in a corner, being perceived as anti-social,  because I just don't know how to go up to someone I don't know and start talking. I expected it to be fun, because Ogunquit is always fun.

I did what I always do at events, and took pictures all weekend. And managed to get them all posted to Facebook within 24 hours...which is a rarity...I still have pictures from last summer that I haven't posted,  I think.

There were so many events to cover, that it will take more than one post to get them all. So as a preview of what's coming, here are some highlights:

*I got my picture with Joslyn Fox.
*I took a Shaunna Rai picture that has received over 100 likes.
*I got to be a part of the Red Party and the AIDS Walk.
*I got to see another Dragapalooza with my parents.
*I got to promote this blog to people I don't know.
*And, I got to have a weekend away where I wasn't worried about the stresses of real life.

For one of the first times in my life, I felt like I was actually a part of something far bigger than myself.  I was part of an event weekend that not only blew my socks off, and made Frannie Peabody fund raising history, but also gave me an opportunity to give back to the community.

Monday, March 31, 2014

When I Go, I'm Going Like Topaz


Lady Valerie
Miss Samantha
Saturday night, marked the 5th March Dragness, and it was a memorial of sorts, for a fallen queen, Topaz.  It was a hell of a show, and a night I'll never forget.  And, it's how I want to go out.  When I die, I'm going to beg for a drag show send off.  And, if I don't get one, I can always come back and haunt people until I get one...

Going into this show, I believed that every drag show was pretty much the same thing.  Queen A performs, Queen B performs, Queen C performs, and then the show is pretty much over.  I know that some queens put feeling into their lip syncs, and some perform their own songs.  And, in my head, this is just how shows go.  This show, showed me that you can't always just jump to conclusions that every show is going to be the same.  Because, they are decidedly not all the same.
Asia
Emma

The crowd in Bangor is different than that of Portland.  For one, the crowd in Portland, tends to be a gay crowd, and we're all packed into Blackstones or Styxx.  In Bangor, I would say, that the homos were the minority.  The crowd at Hollywood Casino was a decidedly mixed crowd.  To the left was an older (50-60 year old) straight couple, behind me was a group of girls (barely 21's) who could have used a mute button.  And, spattered throughout the crowd, were faces I recognized.  Some from "home" (read as Portland area), others, who I know from Facebook.
Miss Joanne

Paris Lynne
The show was on a tight schedule, and had to be over in exactly two hours.  None of the usual "We'll start when there's a good enough crowd to start," that plagues a lot of drag shows.  Once the show started, it was banged out act after act.  As usual, I got caught up in taking pictures, which is my MO, at shows.  I know that there's music, but rarely, can I tell you at the end of the night, which performer performed to what song.  But, there were a few acts that I don't know if I'll ever be able to forget.
Shaunna Rai

Candy Cayne
Shaunna Rai gets her usual shout outs, because I live with her, and I wouldn't hear the end of it if I didn't.  But, she's always amazing, so it's to be expected.  Her first performance was a mix of songs by Pink, that I've seen a few times.  She looked like Pink.  And, she surprised the audience.  The whispers at the beginning, of "What the..." quickly turned to whispers of "Oh my God, she actually looks like Pink," as the rip away came off.  When she did her second number, Tina Turner's Proud Mary, there were ripples again, through the audience of "She's not seriously going to..." By the end of the song, any doubt that she could pull it off was gone, and a good majority of the audience was actually singing along to the song.  (Something that I always do anyway, without thinking about it, but haven't seen happen before.)
Justin Case

Mikayla Loveheart
Asia Thavone, who I had met once before at Mama's Cabaret, last summer, was another standout performer.  If I remember correctly, she did a Whitney number for her first number.  But, the standout performance, was her second number.  She dedicated Bette Midler's Wind Beneath My Wings to Topaz.  And, I got a bit choked up.  The song itself, in combination with a memorial of any sort, is just enough to get the tears flowing.  Combine that with an amazing performance, which looked like it got to Asia herself (I couldn't tell for sure, as I was all the way in the back row, fighting to see over a woman whose head I swear was bigger than a watermelon).
Miss Samantha

Valerie
Paris Lynne, another queen who I met through Mama's Cabaret, last fall, performed Stacy Q's Two of Hearts, for her first number, and alternated co-hosting with Lady Valerie Honeywell.  But, her standout number, was Christina Perry's Human.  It was a song that I hadn't actually heard prior to the show, and one that I have added to my iPod, after seeing her perform to it.  She was one of the last numbers of the night, and you could tell at the beginning of the song, that the night was getting to her. By the end of the song, I really just wanted to go hug her, and tell her that it was going to be okay, and that Topaz would've been proud of her.  The amount of emotion that went into the performance again, choked me up.
Emma

Asia
And, then came the finale.  Valerie gathered all the queens on the stage.  Shaunna Rai, Candy Cayne, Asia, Justin, Emma, Paris, Samantha, Joanne, Mikayla, Paris and Valerie.  The dedication of the final number to both Topaz and Amanda Kelley, and their families, who were in the audience was touching.  When Valerie picked up one of Topaz's costumes, from the corner of the stage, and lay it on the stage, and sang to it, and then invited the family to pay their respects to the costume, it made it hard to not get emotional, whether you knew them or not.
Miss Joanne

As the show itself was a fund raiser, I'm curious to find out how much was actually made.  The show sold out of early tickets, and at the end of the night, it was standing room only.

Paris Lynne
Anyway, as I was driving (most of the way home) I told Dan, that's what I want, if I happen to die before he does.  I want to have a show in my honor.  Selfish? Maybe. But, in a way, it's for them.  A sentiment, that I generally hear more from my own family, that I heard last night was, "We really need to stop meeting this way." Because, in general, sickness and death are the two things that bring people together.  But, life goes on.  And, if it gives a group of performers a reason to perform, why not let it be known?  Because, as I'm coming to realize, life is too short to be unhappy.  I know I was smiling at the end of the night, and I'm sure that Topaz was as well, knowing that she brought together a group of her friends, who put on one hell of a show.
Shaunna Rai


Justin Case

Mikayla Loveheart
Candy Cayne
The Final Number, all the queens and half the audience

Monday, November 18, 2013

Halloween: A Day for Drag, Hobgoblins, and Everything in Between

Ever since I was little, Halloween hasn't really been a holiday that held much interest for me.  Aside from the candy, there was no draw to it for me.  So, when this year's Halloween came around, I viewed it with a more open mind than usual.  Because, really, who's going to be the stick in the mud saying no to a drag queen on the one night of the year that people are going out of their way to become drag queens?

The thought had crossed my mind that I wanted nothing to do with Halloween, because it's never been any fun for me.  I've always had to work, and any time that I was invited to any kind of party, it was either while I was working, or I just wasn't in the mood to go.  And, the opportunity presented itself to go to two Halloween parties, along with two drag shows. And, I was going to be free to go to all of them.  What magic is this?

After realizing that the different parties meant that I should probably have different costumes, I kinda started to panic.  The idea of one costume was scary enough.  Three or four? Oh my.

I spent the first part of the Halloween season picking over costumes at Marden's and Party City, hoping that a costume would just jump out on me, and BOOM! I'd know what I wanted to be.  Unfortunately, life doesn't really work that way.  So, I'd pick up a piece here and there, and hope that I could figure out what I wanted to do with them.

The night of the first show, I ended up changing my mind completely.  Instead of going as the Gargoyle, that I had considered, I ended up deciding that I wanted to be a dead goth boy.  I bought my first bottle of nail polish....for myself, and was excited about it.  I decided that I wanted to do something totally different, and new, and bought a bottle of black paint, and a white t-shirt, which I promptly ran over (on purpose) after painting the tire of my car black.

Quickly, after changing out my hair for different hair, my costume came together.  I stenciled my tire track across my face, and then just had to wait for the ladies to finish getting ready.  After all, not only was it a costume party, with prizes (supposedly) but, it was a show night.  So, I was chauffeur to the girls.

And, for the first time, the venue was mostly empty for the show.  And, I was one of four people in costume.  Me, Pocahontas, Cleopatra, and the Gay-o-saurus.  The show, of course, as usual was great.  And, I met a couple of people Dan had gone to school with.  So, it was fun.

The next night, was the Halloween party in Ogunquit, at Mainestreet.  And, by the time we were in the mood to do anything, we didn't have the energy.  So, we stayed home.

Then, came the show at Blackstones.  Again, I was expecting a lot of people to be out in costume, even though Halloween itself wasn't until the following Thursday.  And, again, I decided to dress up a little.  I glued some demon horns to my head and decided to tattoo myself fully, using a shirt that Dan had.  One that actually got me a few people trying to figure out if they were real or not.

Again another amazing show, a fund raiser for the Dempsey Center in Lewiston.  All the usuals were there.  Shaunna Rai, Vanila Honey-Bush, and Miss E'on.

The final event for Halloween wasn't happening until after Halloween was over.  Another fund raiser for Pride.  And, at that point, I was over Halloween.  I learned a lesson though.  In the future, I'm going to pick a costume far earlier than I did this year.  I'll stick with the same costume, or change small things in it.  But, I need to NOT wait until the last minute to do so.


Who knows? Halloween is a holiday where Drag is an acceptable costume....I mean, all the jocks are dying to get into a dress...or at least they were in high school.  Maybe next year, I can take the Kathy Griffin look a step further...